I’m an introvert and dating intimidates me a little bit. It’s been a while since I’ve been on a first date and certain places may overwhelm me if I’m getting to know someone for the first time. Maybe you’re an introvert too and you’re looking for the best first date ideas that won’t overwhelm you too much. Here are the best first date ideas for introverts.
Attend A Wine Tasting
If both of you are introverts and enjoy trying new wines, attend a local wine tasting. Wine tastings lend themselves to good conversations because you can discuss which wines you liked, your current knowledge about wines, and any recent wines you tasted lately. Choose a wine tasting at a smaller location if you hate big crowds.
Workshops or Classes
This is one of the best first date ideas for introverts because many introverts are creative, and you and your date can introduce yourselves to new skills you can learn together on your own. Some ideas for workshops or classes include:
- Painting classes
- Cooking classes
- Writing workshops
- Pottery classes
- Language learning classes
- Digital marketing classes
Choose a class that teaches skills that both of you are interested in learning. If both of you enjoyed the class and the date went well, you can attend more classes for future dates and get to know each other on a deeper level.
Bible Study
If both of you are Christians and are committed to growing spiritually, invite your date to your church for Bible study. You get to learn more about your faith and your date’s spiritual life. After the Bible study ends, you and your date can discuss what you learned and the Scriptures you read. You can also discuss how you can apply it to your life.
Visit a Jazz Club
If you and your date both enjoy jazz, visit a jazz club for your first date. Jazz clubs provide an intimate atmosphere and it isn’t too loud unlike traditional concerts in big arenas. You can enjoy good food, good music, and long interesting conversations.
Arcade Date Night
For the introverts who love gaming, you and your date can head to a local arcade for a night of fast-action fun. Talk about your favorite games while battling each other. You may disagree in a joking way about which video games are the best and why.
Have a Weekday Lunch at a Less Crowded Restaurant
Restaurants tend to be crowded on the weekends and on weeknights. This is especially true with the more popular restaurants in town. If you want to eat out but hate crowds, consider a weekday lunch at a less crowded restaurant. You can enjoy each other’s company without the anxiety.
Play Old-School Board Games at the Park
Another idea is to bring some old-school board games and bring them to the park to play together. You can ask each other meaningful questions over snacks and games while enjoying the sunny outdoors. Some good board games to play are Monopoly, Clue, Scrabble, Life, and UNO.
Head to the Farmer’s Market
If you and your date are foodies, check out the local farmer’s market. You’ll find delicious produce, meats, and snacks from local independent vendors. Discuss what types of cuisines you enjoy, what your childhood memories were surrounding food, your opinions of certain food products, and types of cuisine you want to try.
Go On a Food Truck Tour
This is one of the best first date ideas for introverts who are foodies. Type in the search terms “food trucks near me” and write down the names and addresses of the food trucks you’re interested in that are in a certain neighborhood. It’s a neat and fun way to enjoy your city and discover new neighborhoods.
Work on A Project Together
If both of you are creative people, you can work on a fun project. Maybe you’re interested in creating a portfolio website to showcase your graphic design projects on and your date is a web designer. He can assist you with the website.. Enjoy a few snacks and head to a coffeehouse or co-working space to do the project.
Attend a Play
Plays are some of the best first dates for introverts because they’re low-key and provide a relaxed atmosphere. This is also a neat idea for introverts who love artsy activities.
Check Out A Free Festival
If you’re looking for a fun and affordable activity, you can attend a free festival. You can visit different booths and enjoy delicious snacks and buy a few crafts while listening to great music and walking around the festival. If it’s an outdoor festival, wear comfortable clothing and stay hydrated by drinking plenty of water.
Go On a Bike Tour of a Neighborhood You’ve Never Visited
Many cities have up-and-coming neighborhoods waiting to be explored. You and your date can grab your bikes and ride around one of these neighborhoods. Take pictures of historic landmarks, visit some of the retail shops, and eat at one or two of the restaurants.
Take Your Furry Friends to the Dog Park
Dog parks provide a quiet and low-pressure way to enjoy a first date. You and your date’s dogs can hang out together while both of you talk about how lovable and cute they are. Also ask the usual questions to get to know each other better in a meaningful way.
Have a Picnic
Grab some goodies from a specialty food store and take your date on a picnic at the park. This is a relaxing atmosphere and you’re not surrounded by crowds of people. Engage in fun and deep conversations over delicious food and after the picnic, you can visit the city’s downtown area and shop for books, gadgets, or artifacts.
Go to Your Favorite Team’s Training Camp
Some football teams offer free tickets to their training camps that take place before the season begins. If tickets are still available for your team, you and your date can have fun and analyze your team’s performance on the field as they prepare for the new season.
These are just a few first date ideas that will work well for introverts. If you’re not comfortable with a certain suggestion, let your date know and suggest something different. Most of all, enjoy yourself and don’t focus too heavily on how well the date will go.
